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"[I
met my wife] when I was in school. I was older. [We decided to marry]
when I asked her. It was much later after [I came back from Teachers
College in Flagstaff].
I
used to have a girlfriend and I was going to marry her. Her father
died and she moved to California. We used to write to each other
and then I got a big surprise. I had given her an engagement ring
and I was ready to move on. Then all of a sudden I got a letter
breaking the engagement. I felt very bad. Yes, [she sent the ring
back to me] without an explanation or anything. I did not know what
to do.
I
had very high aspirations but I am very, I do not know. It is like
I do not want to risk things. When I got together with my wife,
I had no direction. I did not know where to go. I wanted to leave
but I did not know to where. I had an aunt and uncle in Fresno and
I wanted to go there. I started to meet with my wife [to be] and
I told her about it. I remember very well the letter I received.
It was in my new car where I asked her and she playfully answered
me. There is nothing between us, I said. No,
she said. I already had planned to get, as they say the unfortunate
permission. She told me, Yes, I will marry you. That
is how it happened.
I
decided to stay in Morenci. I did not
want to leave the job. Then it became quite a story. Her father
was reluctant, and many things occurred. I could write a book. Don
Patricio Flores was his name. That was her father. Doña María
Flores [was her mother].
I
have Tom, Ida, and Daniel. Three [children].
He [Daniel] is here [in Tucson]. He was in the Marines and Tom was
in the army. Very intelligent, Danny is but he stays apart.
We [my wife and I went] to dances only on
one or two occasions in Fresno. We used to go to the Coronado Trail,
just riding in the car. That is when I felt that I was sick but
I did not know what was wrong with me. I got dizzy. I thought it
was my stomach, because I burped but I think it was the darn diabetes.
I
wanted college for them [my children]
but Danny did not want to. I have a grandson, Leo who is very intelligent.
He is here [in Tucson] now. I used to tell him to finish his schooling.
He told me, No, I know more than the ones who are there.
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