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"The
first house [we lived in in Morenci], it was a two-story house,
[a] great big one and my dad was really proud of his house because
he was always working on it, you know, fixing here and fixing there.
He had fruit trees and he planted flowers for my mother. He built
like an oven where she boiled the clothes, she boiled the sheets.
[It was] outside. He used to work with cement, brick, and rocks,
like a mason. He built that [clothesline] for her. Her other neighbors,
we had these neighbors that lived next door to us, their name was
Medriano, she and my mom were really good friends and she'd come
and do her wash there too. He built her a clothesline, {it was]
round and she shared the clothesline. I remember that he had a cherry
tree and the cherries would disappear and I was the one that ate
them. "Oh, mis cherries, ya se perdieron!" (Oh, my cherries are
gone!) He knew I was the one who took them. (laughs)
There were four rooms and downstairs there was
three. He rented the downstairs. Then he brought my tía Petra
to live there in the downstairs because my tío was sent to
the asylum. He had a nervous breakdown because he used to go to
the hills and bring barrel cactus and make candy. He wouldn't sleep,
he'd be out early in the morning to sell his goods.
Yeah, [there was running water in the house
with a sink and a faucet.][There was electricity.] No, [no gas].
Woodstove. My dad [cut the wood]. [I didn't have any chores as a
child], not that I remember. She [mother] never made us. She'd tell
us to do it but then she'd do it herself.
My grandma was the one that entertained us.
My mama was always busy with the babies. My grandma was the one
that would tell us stories about spooks and ghosts and la llorona.
We'd go visit them, all the time, we'd go visit my grandma and my
grandpa and we'd go visit my tía Carlota and my mother used
to like to go visit las comadres on Sundays. That's where we'd all
go, all together. Carmela didn't like it but she took the whole
group to visit the comadres. They [Mr. Gomez's parents] were compadres.
I don't remember [for whom] but I know they called each other compadres.
For a long time, after the family moved to California, his sisters
used to come and visit my mother and my dad. They liked them. They'd
always come and visit. We used to go visit, I remember, visit this
comadre, Lusita Garcia, and I really liked her tea. She made tea
for us and she put cinnamon. It was cool, real cool. She'd feed
all the whole bunch of family because my mother would take all of
us, her whole brood. Beans and potatoes, but what I remember the
most was the tea.
Traditions? I remember that we used to have
the whole family would get together and enjoy dinner my mother made
or my Pepa. Mole. Tamales and that was for Christmas. Then when
our kids got baptized, we had a dinner too, we made mole and rice,
chicken mole. Carmela and Daddy Memo [was the first wedding in the
family] in August of 1938.
We were taught to go to catechism. We were taught
our prayers in Spanish and we went to Mass every Sunday. Every holiday
and days of obligation. Yes, [I made my first Holy Communion]. I
was baptized and confirmed in El Paso. I made my first Holy Communion
in Morenci. I was seven years old.
I remember my dad belonged to La Alianza, both
my mom and dad. That was like an insurance, life insurance. They
used to go to meetings and they had dances. I guess to raise funds
for the organization. It was that building next door to the Holy
Cross Church, that big building right across. Across from Holy Cross.
It must have been torn down. It was a big hall. The parking lot
was a little further down. This building was right as you went out
the church."
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