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"I
used to be neighbors with my husband. We used to play together.
He was younger. I was four years older than he. In fact, we were
neighbors, they live above where your grandma's house was. Remember
the Duartes? Ermana Duarte, Doña Martina Duarte. The mother
and the dad bought that house and they lived above me. And we used
to play there when we were little. Then we grew up. I went to California.
He went to the service. After the service we met again. I met him
in 1946. Then I went back to California then I came back to Morenci
in 1947. I met him again and we got married. We just went around
for six months and we got married.
He
was nice looking. He had blue eyes. I told all the people, "You
know why I married him? Because he had blue eyes." (laughter) I
liked him. Then I knew him good, I knew who he was. In 1939 I went
to Sonora. I went to California a year after that in 1940, Los Angeles.
I used to work in factories. I used to visit Morenci every summer.
I went to visit my mother. But to stay I went in 1947. I was living
with my sister and my aunt in California. At first I liked California
better than Morenci because there were jobs. Now I don't. There
were a lot of places to go to. My mother was kind of sick and I
went back to Morenci to stay with her. I was only going to stay
awhile then I got married so I never went back.
I
just had a plain wedding. First I got married by the law; the justice
of the peace. Then four years later I got married by the church.
It was just a simple wedding because I had already been married
four years so early in the morning, six o'clock we went to church.
Ramona was my madrina (matron of honor), her and her husband, Beto
Lira. I wanted to get married by the church. I went to the priest
and he said, "Come six o'clock in the morning , I'll marry you."
We got married and he went to work. (laughter) My mother knew I
was going to get married and she was there. My sisters were living
in California. They were not there, just my mother.
I
loved my house, my home, I wanted to have it clean and have nice
things. I used to like to cook, clean the yard, make it pretty.
We had trees and little plants. We could afford them to buy because
he was working after the war. We could afford to buy things. I didn't
work outside the home after I was married. My son was born in 1948.
He was the only child I had. That was the only one I could have.
After my son was born, it was better because I had interest in him.
To keep him safe at home, not being hurt, sending him to school.
To have his food ready when he came home from school so he could
eat. Take him to the mountains, going camping.
We
had a TV, a stereo. We were rich! (laughter) The TV came in the
50's. The first TV I bought, I bought it from PD. My husband and
I went dancing and we went camping at Cherry Lodge. We went with
his family. We had plenty of disagreements. He used to like to drink.
He used to stop at the bar and take some drinks and I didn't like
that. I wanted him to come straight home. But he woudn't. (laughter).
He would get "happy" then come home. When I used to get real mad,
he would stop drinking.
My
best friend was Nena Ponce de Leon. We were de Leon too, but his
father took off the de Leon. It was a big name, a long name. We're
just Ponces. My husband used to call her husband, cousin because
we had the same name. "Oh, my primo." But they weren't. Just because
they carried the same last name. Ramona Lira was my husband's tía
(aunt).
I
loved being pregnant. I was happy we were going to have a little
kid in the house. My husband had three shifts: days, and p.m. and
graveyard. The baby would keep me company. I would go to Morenci
Hospital to have a check-up with the doctor before the baby was
born. They charged to have the baby at the hospital. It wasn't too
much then. They used to take it out from the paycheck. Every two
weeks they took out the rent, the food, and the hospital from their
checks.
I
lived en el seis (AC Hill). Where the Imperio was I used to live
up that hill. In those little adobe houses by where Petra Velasquez
used to live. Above that, we lived. Where that swimming pool used
to be, we lived there. We had one bedroom, and the living room,
and the kitchen and the bathroom. What happened is I had one of
those couches that had a bed and my son would sleep there and we
had our bedroom. We lived there seven years. Then in 1958 we moved
to California. They started to cut down to four days at the PD and
then I said, "We can go to California and I can work too." So we
went because he could work and I could work. We both made the decision.
My mother was living in California. So that's why I wanted to go
there. His family was in Morenci.
I
wanted my son to have a happy life. Be with him, do things with
him, take him camping and taking him to the movies. We went to the
movies. I wanted him to finish high school which he did. He finished
high school and he went to college in California."
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